I saw Paudie Butler give a version of this presentation (YouTube link
https://youtu.be/f99tOqtVanI ) in early 2014.

Hand on heart, the presentation changed me. It changed how I coach
children, it changed how I interact with children outside of coaching and
it changed how I speak with my own children.

It made me realise that my actions as a coach in the past (losing it with
the kids on occasions ) definitely had a negative impact on the children
and that players I coached may have given up hurling and football because
of this.

This was an uncomfortable feeling and still is, but Paudie explained on the
night that you must forgive yourself as you cannot change the past but you
can change what you do in the future.

I know the above probably sounds a bit nuts, but this presentation is worth
sounding nuts for.

The presentation takes 45 minutes, if you can, put on a pair of head phones
and watch. It is definitely worth it.